Tips for creating your heart smile ... Maybe it works.
LIVE THE LIFE, LET THE LIFE LIVE FOR IT DON'T WAIT FOR YOU TO HAVE TIME FOR WHAT HAPPENS NOW!
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"Life is a sparkling play in all seriousness"
- Vigdis Garbarek
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I have to say I wholeheartedly agree with that.
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No, it's not that simple because we have so many laws and regulations that we are not even aware of, but that we once needed to live up to in the environment we grew up in.
At the same time as time has passed, we have made a whole lot of additional paragraphs to these laws and rules, yes, it goes as it so often has to.
We have to spend a lot of time and energy remembering everything and then we get tired, tired, scared, etc. and life only begins to consist of survival.
Survive the everyday life that consists of home, work, children, husband / wife, bills, yes simply to make the solitaire go up and the life dream you once had slowly fades away.
The dream of life that you no longer think you can reconcile with the other, because you no longer see the possibilities but only the limitations.
The limitations that come from the fact that somewhere in yourself you do not think you have it in you anymore or the fear that you will not succeed anyway.
The fear that lies there like an invisible barrier:
- the fear of losing what you have…
- the fear of losing control…
- the fear of change…
- the fear of not reaching…
- the fear of not being accepted…
- the fear that what you are doing is not good enough.
- the fear of whatever your fears are.
Dare to be vulnerable… no one is made of stone.
I did not dare to be vulnerable so I have tried to be made of stone, because I learned in several places along the way that it was safest not to show my vulnerability, because then I was teased or in other ways shown that it is not acceptable.
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Dare to show where you stand… stand on your own two feet.
I did not dare to show where I stood or who I was. I learned that it is only allowed in moderate forms and those forms I did not decide. I learned to shape myself according to the will of others so that there were not too many waves and that it would have consequences if I showed too much of myself.
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Strong is the one who looks around and chooses the path himself.
I did not look around much and I did not choose the whole way myself, but it probably looked like that. What I did was choose a pattern that someone had made for me and I thought it was my life.
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Maybe the ones that hurt you… are the weakest anyway?